I'm going to break this down into whether you feel uncomfortable with the size, shape, and length of an earring regardless of its weight and how it makes your ear feel, versus whether you are fine with those factors as long as the way it makes your ear lobe feel is good and comfortable.
Once you know how you feel about the dimensions of an earring - its length, its width or shape, you can move onto considering the factors that will separate one pair of earrings from another in terms of comfort for you, within the range of designs you are considering.
Thanks Kaz, for your comments, I’m glad you found the article interesting and helpful, I hope it serves you well for a lifetime of comfy and gorgeous earrings
September 08, 2020
Such a fantastic article with excellent tips and tricks on choosing the perfect earrings for you! I especially like the info about choosing length, weight, gauge and material! :)